Fear’s Folly - A Lesson I Learned From Phoebe Fair

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Phoebe Fair was a tiny girl whose brief life made an enormous and powerful impact. She taught me a priceless lesson:

Faith conquers fear.

Phoebe inspired me to courage and caused me to realize that we can often misjudge based on size. This small child faced a giant foe and demonstrated strength.

 
At 2 years old, Phoebe was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive brain cancer. In spite of this those who loved this precious child remained hopeful. Phoebe herself was a shining example of joy and determination.

 
Her parents did not waste time on silly things that did not matter. This fine couple served as missionaries. They were also engaged in a fierce fight for their daughter’s life. As her sweet life slipped away grief could not be easily assuaged. They needed something extraordinary. They received their “A-typical Miracle” (which is the title of the blog about Phoebe’s life http://atypicalmiracle.com/) in the comfort of knowing she touched many in her short, well-lived life. The Facebook page dedicated to Phoebe received almost 98,000 likes and the blog had approximately 1800 followers.

So now to the lesson I learned. If she could, at such a tender age, face cancer and not cower, I too should be able to be strong.

 The night before I was due to undergo a medical procedure myself, I couldn’t sleep due to anxiety.  I decided to peruse Facebook.  I found this post from Phoebe’s mom recounting a conversation which took place only weeks before Phoebe went to heaven. Amazing words of wisdom from a little girl who was barely four years old.

 

“Phoebe: "God loves us. God loves us and God is not a meanie."
Me: "That's right Phoebe, God loves us very much."
Phoebe: "And I am not afraid, say it Mom, say "I am not afraid."
Me, teary-eyed: "I am not afraid."

Not only did these words grab my attention, they gave me a resolve to be brave.


 

 

 

Comments

Jeanie Smith said…
We all have trials. We wouldn't be here on earth if we didn't have more to learn! Phoebe's courage is a good lesson for me too.
October 15, 2013 at 6:12 PM
MaryBeth said…
Thanks Jeannie,
How nice of you to take the time to comment.
October 26, 2013 at 12:56 PM
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